Styles make fights...what's your style?

"Styles make fights" is a famous saying in combat sports. A couple of questions pop into my head when I hear that phrase:

What is style?
How does a person know what his style is?
How do you work and develop your style?
How can you work your style when you are fighting?
How does a person's personality affect his style of fighting?
How should someone use his personality to develop his style?

Fighting is a physical game. However, fighting is a mental game too. There's a lot of psychology that goes on in the prep before the fight, the fight itself and after.

What is interesting, is many fighters do not take the time to self analyze what is their style of fighting. A lot of fighters don't know what their strengths and weaknesses are when it comes to their fighting skill. Maybe it comes from a need for the fighter to be confident. Maybe it comes from them just doing what they were told to do and not to question what was said to them. I don't know. There could be a lot of reasons.

What I do know is that it is important for the fighter to think about these questions and talk with their trainer and training partners about them. Your trainer can be a great help if he is objective in looking at you as a complete fighter. He also should know a little bit of what goes on in your head and not just how you can throw shots or tap someone out. It's a two way street that you and your trainer have to walk down together. You, as a fighter might not see things too clearly and think you should be doing something that just isn't going to be effective for you. It's your trainer's job to get you back on track and working with you so you can fully develop "your style" and be the best you can be. These questions help get both parties to start the dialogue and help with the fighters future growth.

Good training.

Overcoming your Fears...

From Stacia...

I am terrfied of deep water. That's right. Can't watch 'Shark Week" on the Discovery Channel...can't watch "The Abyss." I've even started to hyperventilate during the aforementioned film.

This summer, with the help of my outdoor-savvy little brother, I decided to conquer my fear of what lies beneath. So, with our sea kayak strapped to the top of his Jeep, we awoke at sunrise to launch into the mighty Atlantic. Initially, there was no opportunity to "showboat"...I did have to inform my brother that I was dreadfully close to vomiting. As time went on, however, not only did I overcome my fear of deep water, I came ashore to the high-fives and hoots of accomplishment from my brother.

That said, you'll still never find me on a Princess cruise. Not ever.

Fear takes many forms. Fear may overcome you the night before a big competition. It might envelop you the day you begin with a new trainer. Your fear might come in the form of a classroom full of new students or it might come in the form of walking out the front door of your house each morning.

Conquering your fear...no matter what it is...rewards you with a sense of empowerment, of invincibility, of vindication.

Honestly looking at yourself

One of the toughest things to do is to self assess your fighting skills. In the same light, self assessing anything that you do in life is difficult. Coaches, teachers and training partners can give you their objective perspective on what you need to do to improve but you don't have to take their advice. In fact, you can rationalize that their advice is not accurate because they don't really know what you are capabile of as an individual.

A lot of combat athletes do this type of rationalization.

One of the ways to self assess is to use the mirror. Look at yourself. Whether you are shadow boxing, shadow wrestling (Dan Gable did shadow wrestling) or practicing traditional Kata, the mirror can be a great training tool IF you use it honestly. Once you understand the correct body mechanics of the movement, you can self assess. A video camera is another great tool to assess your movement. The challenge is not to get caught up in "looking at yourself" but to study yourself as you would if you were someone else being objectively critical.

Improvement comes through hard work and effort, however that diligence has to be correct technically. The mirror and video camera are great resource in which to begin.

Good luck.

PS I just finished Joe Frazier's book, Box Like the Pros This book was fantastic. It was straightforward and easy to read and understand. The ideas he outlines in the book are easy to incorporate into your everyday workouts. Next time I'm in Philadelphia, I can't wait to get over to his gym and hit those bags!

It's a New Year!

The last several months have been very busy but very productive. We took some time to re-evaluate and start some new things. The Holidays were busy but they were great. We had some time to get away from our hectic schedules and to spend some time with the important people in our lives.

I've started to do a lot more cardio as of late. It's really been challenging but satisying. I can honestly admit that I don't enjoy the cardio as much as my martial arts training, but cardio really is extremely important if you want to be serious in your training.

Stacia has been doing a lot of Yoga. She's always practiced Yoga, however she's getting her Ashtanga Yoga certification this Spring. She'll be teaching Yoga classes in Lowell once she begins the process.

The room we practice in at Gary Card's Karate in Lowell has been remodeled. Gary Card has done an outstanding job in putting down a great floor and mirrors along the walls and we're very grateful for his enthusiasm. We're very excited to show our new students the space. It has a great feel.